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Invite decoder
what they wrote vs. what they mean.
1Find the line from your invite
๐ 14 answers for you
โYour presence is our presentโ
Means: They truly don't expect a big gift.
โ Do this: A heartfelt card is enough. A small gift ($25โ$75) is a kind extra, never required.
โNo boxed gifts, pleaseโ
Means: They want cash, a check or a fund โ not stuff.
โ Do this: Bring a card with cash/check, or send it on Venmo / Zelle / their honeymoon fund.
โHoneymoon fund / Wishing wellโ
Means: Cash gifts are the plan.
โ Do this: Give cash or use their fund link. Same amount as the calculator says.
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๐ก Quick tip: Type one word from your invite, like โadultsโ or โpresentโ.
Got questions? ๐
My invite only has my name. Can I bring someone?
No โ only the names on the invite are invited. Ask politely only if it's a long-term partner.
โYour presence is our presentโ โ really nothing?
A card is enough. A small gift is a kind extra.
When do I have to RSVP?
By the date on the card, even if your answer is no.
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